Why all the animosity on blogs?

Can someone please explain it to me?

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  1. GODS ANGEL
    Nov 12, 2009 @ 11:15:33

    kim, i dont understand?

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  2. Kim
    Nov 12, 2009 @ 11:24:10

    All the different blogs are at odds with each other for various reasons that I don’t understand. I have been reading Bill Scheaffer’s new blog and all it is is people from all over, every blog, just fighting and snarking at each other.

    What purpose does that serve anyone?

    Do we have a baby yet? 🙂

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  3. Renee
    Nov 12, 2009 @ 11:37:41

    Kim, it’s never going to change…never. Can’t take it to heart too much. Find some humor in it if you can bec it will go on until Casey is convicted. Good day.

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  4. Renee
    Nov 12, 2009 @ 11:38:32

    Hi God’s Angel how are you? (waving) 🙂

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  5. GODS ANGEL
    Nov 12, 2009 @ 11:51:08

    HI RENEE WAVING BACK , KIM I THINK THE FIGHTING WILL GO ON EVERYONE FIGHTING TO BE RIGHT WHY I DONT NO .

    NO BABY I WANT THAT BABY TODAY IS MY MOM BIRTHDAY AND IM WISHING HARD TODAY FOR THAT BABY GIRL TO COME TODAY..

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  6. Kim
    Nov 12, 2009 @ 12:40:12

    That would be great Chey!

    Hiya Renee – I am not taking it to heart – I just don’t understand it

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  7. Filipa
    Nov 12, 2009 @ 13:51:57

    Kim in this matter ,as others, one has to set rules for OUR OWN BEHAVIOUR,Not for others to live accordingly…
    each one does as he/she thinks best.PERIOD

    How other’s live, think, or behave, is tottally up to them.

    The problem resumes in a concept IMO:
    FALSE MODESTY!
    (the presumption that we must teach others what to do, For their own GOOD !!!!)
    it’s a free world, and fortunatly so! I found the
    “disturbance” quite useful…learned that my own craziness is quite manageable, after all!!!
    (could I ask for a more positive deduction, today?)

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  8. Filipa
    Nov 12, 2009 @ 13:56:39

    it is already a hell of a responsability ,for me, to educate 2 young daughters!

    let alone the presumption I should do it, TO ALL THE U.S. population or all MR Shaeffers blog followers.

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  9. Filipa
    Nov 12, 2009 @ 14:00:24

    Oh I get it now, you wanna analyse psiquiatrically????

    here’s what I think: ppl were fighting for Shaeffers attention, and got territorial and beserk.

    I think he’s got more to do in life, than stare at a monitor all day.. (good for him!)

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  10. BEES KNEES
    Nov 12, 2009 @ 14:14:31

    Kim, I think it would be more accurate to ask “Why all the anomosity on that one blog?” unless I’m missing something (which sure wouldn’t be the first time). Are you saying there are other blogs that do the same? If so, I’m happy to have not run into them.

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  11. Kim
    Nov 12, 2009 @ 14:18:36

    Filipa! good to see you!

    Bee’s! a treat as always

    I have seen in fighting on almost every blog I have been to – sometimes it is ego related, sometimes personality clashes

    Are we bored? Are we mean spirited? I some how don’t think so but I am usually wrong….

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  12. BEES KNEES
    Nov 12, 2009 @ 14:27:25

    Ooops! Forgot to mention ~ let’s move on. It took a year to generate all of that bad will and it likely won’t disappear overnight but I think for all of our sakes we should just leave it alone. Are we not better than that? The REAL issue is seeking justice for Caylee, and that is a common ground on which we can ALL agree, no?

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  13. BEES KNEES
    Nov 12, 2009 @ 14:29:27

    I guess I’ve been lucky cause I honestly don’t recall running into that attitude but as I said, the bottom line is we all want the same thing and that’s what’s important. Gosh! I hope we haven’t scared off poor Bill Sheaffer.

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  14. Kim
    Nov 12, 2009 @ 14:33:41

    I hope not, Bee’s! I am all for moving forward. I think it has just gotten out of hand! Bill set up a blog – I was so excited!! – and all I saw there was nitpicking and BS

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  15. Renee
    Nov 12, 2009 @ 15:43:45

    Bees Knees, you said,

    Are you saying there are other blogs that do the same? If so, I’m happy to have not run into them.

    Comment by BEES KNEES — November 12, 2009 @

    Lisa said, on November 12, 2009 at 2:49 pm Here is a remark that MD made ..which kind of has me going Errrrrrrr?????

    He just finishes talking about him not allowing bashing etc….but then goes on to say

    “For Bill Sheaffer, you can go to http://billsheaffer.wordpress.com or you can find a link on my sidebar. Yes, I was very nice to Bees Knees when she asked for a leaf. She had been nasty before, but I was willing to forget the past. First time, shame on her. Second time, shame on me. There will be no other time again. She is a fink with a capital R-A-T.”

    It looks like you did have a run in and are now banned from md’s blog? Well, maybe you can’t remember which would be the better thing to do since all this is nonsense anyway.

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    • BEES KNEES
      Nov 13, 2009 @ 13:19:09

      Hmmmmmm — I don’t know Renee. It’s been quite a while since I’ve been at that blog. Life’s just too short to subject myself to abuse on my own free time! HA HA HA!

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  16. Filipa
    Nov 12, 2009 @ 15:49:55

    I thank you Kim.I dont show up without invitation usually! lol

    thanx for allowing me to speak my mind!& hopefully i’ll be in good terms with the grammar brigade, since English is my 3rd language!

    diversity is a wonderfull thing! but then, this is just my opinion..LOL

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  17. Kim
    Nov 12, 2009 @ 15:51:59

    There is no grammar brigade here, Filipa

    I don’t know how many of us here speak 2, let alone 3 languages

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  18. Filipa
    Nov 12, 2009 @ 18:20:14

    well I dont consider myself “fluent” on the remaining…I must add (once I criticized “false modesty”) ROFL!!!!!

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  19. Filipa
    Nov 12, 2009 @ 18:22:11

    Ie. it doesnt end there!
    ..but my speccialty is suaring…(and insulting vocabulary!)

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  20. BEES KNEES
    Nov 12, 2009 @ 18:23:43

    Yeah, it’s true. But we didn’t get along very well ~ at one point he deleted some of my comments. I stuck my nose in because it has happened so often. In truth I barely even lurk there anymore because it was hurtful to see how they gang up on people. And it just happened over and over. Maybe it doesn’t go on anymore but there seem to be an awful lot of people describing the same experiences. Anyway. Boring. Let’s focus on Casey heh heh heh . . .

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  21. GODS ANGEL
    Nov 12, 2009 @ 18:33:05

    WOULD EVERYONE SAY A PRAYER THAT MY DAUGHTER HAS THIS BABY TONIGHT …..I CANT TAKE WHIS WAITING .

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  22. savannahsnanny
    Nov 12, 2009 @ 19:12:38

    Hi ya Kim…are you here?

    Chey…relax take a deep breath…she(whats her name gonna be)has another 41/2 hours…is your daughter in labor???

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  23. GODS ANGEL
    Nov 12, 2009 @ 19:25:39

    savanna, they said she could go anytime she at 5 now and they did a procedure to bring on yesterday but so far she not feeling much.

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  24. GODS ANGEL
    Nov 12, 2009 @ 19:26:48

    my daughter wont tell anyone what her name will be

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  25. Kim
    Nov 12, 2009 @ 19:44:12

    I am here!!!

    no baby yet?!!!!

    savannah!! my sweety!!!!

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  26. Hilde
    Nov 12, 2009 @ 19:50:04

    I don’t know why it is necessary to argue and picker back and fourth on a Blog.
    It seems to me the busier a Blog becomes the more chances of Personalities clashing there are.
    Personally I avoid those Blogs, Life can be difficult enough at times without reading some of those Insults on varies Blogs.
    I also noticed some bickering back and forth on Bill Shaeffer’s new Blog, here again a lot of People are visiting his Blog and the Chances of starting an argumentative Discussion are pretty good.
    I have the Impression that Blog is there to keep us updated on the latest Developments in the Anthony Case and B.Schaeffer’s Take on it. There is no Way he will be able to answer All those Questions put to him, at least that is just what I think. JMO

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  27. Kim
    Nov 12, 2009 @ 19:54:43

    You are right, Hilde – I just don’t understand why people would take their pettiness there – he is doing this FOR US to LEARN

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  28. knute
    Nov 12, 2009 @ 22:00:50

    All one needs to do is look at Orlando or any city (Topix forum). The same fighting has been going on there for years. It has gotten to the point of the law being informed of comments. Many forums have been destroyed by the same fighting. Without moderation it is what people will do.

    knute

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  29. Kim
    Nov 13, 2009 @ 06:19:15

    Welcome Knute! Thanks – I have seen it on many blogs – makes no sense at all

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  30. GODS ANGEL
    Nov 13, 2009 @ 19:21:37

    just a update no baby yet

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  31. Kim
    Nov 13, 2009 @ 20:08:28

    damn it, chey

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  32. Kim
    Nov 13, 2009 @ 21:48:02

    from Bill S.

    thank you, Bill

    Finally, I was more than a little surprised at the number of ongoing personal and vituperative attacks between and among some of you. Again, I am new at this. But, because I am a strong proponent of the First Amendment, I would like to avoid setting up a schedule of rules for this site, if possible. I am interested in hearing from everyone, regardless of his/her opinions or positions. I learn from you too. Please. Let’s make this a place for civil discourse. It is personally very difficult and time consuming to read through all of “the other” to get to what most of you really care about: Can the State of Florida get justice for little girl Caylee Anthony? So thank you in advance.

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  33. savannahsnanny
    Nov 13, 2009 @ 21:51:14

    I am soooo very happy…what class !!!!

    Thank you Bill. JAC

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  34. Kim
    Nov 13, 2009 @ 22:00:05

    He did good, huh Savannah

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  35. Kim
    Nov 13, 2009 @ 22:00:54

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  36. savannahsnanny
    Nov 13, 2009 @ 22:02:35

    Yes he did, I was so afraid he would be turned off…this is great for all of us and most of all for Caylee. 😉

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  37. Kim
    Nov 13, 2009 @ 22:23:13

    i agree, Savannah

    i am sure he has dealt with tougher crowds 😉

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  38. GODS ANGEL
    Nov 13, 2009 @ 22:24:17

    kim e-mail me this blog in my mail going to hosp with daughter maybe baby time

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  39. savannahsnanny
    Nov 13, 2009 @ 22:24:42

    For sure KIm. 😉

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  40. savannahsnanny
    Nov 13, 2009 @ 22:25:41

    OH chey good luck…blessing…let US know soon. JAC

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  41. Kim
    Nov 13, 2009 @ 22:26:26

    you got it hun!

    good luck and best wishes!!

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  42. savannahsnanny
    Nov 13, 2009 @ 22:28:56

    Now I will be walking back and forth, sipping my wine and puffing away…I am SOOO excited. 😉

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  43. Kim
    Nov 13, 2009 @ 22:34:41

    me too!!

    we know its a girl though!

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  44. savannahsnanny
    Nov 13, 2009 @ 22:36:31

    I just want to see a healthy mommy, and sweet baby girl. ;0

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  45. Kim
    Nov 13, 2009 @ 22:38:33

    it will all be just perfect

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  46. savannahsnanny
    Nov 13, 2009 @ 22:44:32

    I know Kim…I just worry about every body…I will do my famouse Albanian dance…gotta go find my peasant dress and candles,ect. lol

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  47. Kim
    Nov 13, 2009 @ 22:45:18

    lol

    use the accent!!

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  48. savannahsnanny
    Nov 13, 2009 @ 22:51:56

    Yes it is a sight to behold…one could be blinded by this. lol

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  49. Kim
    Nov 13, 2009 @ 22:57:39

    do you have the lace shawl?

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  50. savannahsnanny
    Nov 13, 2009 @ 23:00:31

    yep, everything..you see I am just apeasant at heart…you better go to sleep or you gonna be exhausted.

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  51. Kim
    Nov 13, 2009 @ 23:03:07

    i know – bit its just hypnosis
    i am supposed to sleep, right?

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  52. savannahsnanny
    Nov 13, 2009 @ 23:04:06

    we(L.I) are having one hell of a nor’ester…50/60 mph wind…house is rocking/ mini black outs…dogs are spoked…got canldes going in every room…kinda scary…don’t even want to look at the basement!!!

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  53. Kim
    Nov 13, 2009 @ 23:05:04

    really?

    snow or rain?

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  54. savannahsnanny
    Nov 13, 2009 @ 23:07:04

    rain…2 days now…2 more days to go…lighter tomorrow…lots of firetrucks and cop cars passing every couple of minutes.

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  55. Kim
    Nov 13, 2009 @ 23:09:05

    gosh

    i won’t even mention the weather here then

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  56. Kim
    Nov 13, 2009 @ 23:10:15

    i gots to git

    early am

    I love you SavannahRosesNanny

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  57. savannahsnanny
    Nov 13, 2009 @ 23:11:07

    I know it’s good…go to sleep Kim…I’m goona take a quick shower before we go out again…rest kiddo. 😉

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  58. Kim
    Nov 13, 2009 @ 23:12:51

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  59. knight Owl
    Nov 14, 2009 @ 04:12:59

    Hi ya Chey, i know your at the hospital now and i am excited to read you have a grandbaby girl coming soon. YIPPEE. I will be checking back in to hear of the grand arrival.

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  60. knight Owl
    Nov 14, 2009 @ 04:15:55

    Hi Kim and everyone, sorry i was off topic but i had to comment to chey as too exciting. a baby girl soon. Calming down now. To your topic question. Why do people fight on blogs? Because they can, duh? i don’t know. Maybe if i can figure out what i did with my reading glasses i can research it. lol~~

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  61. MeMa52
    Nov 14, 2009 @ 06:10:49

    morning to you Kim
    wish I had the answer to all the fighting on the blogs but I will not participate in any of it…I think it’s a combination of frustration and our ego that keeps the fuel fired…but in the end we ALL came together to find one thing..JUSTICE for a innocent child that was murdered…we need to stay focused on that…that was the mission we ALL started on
    Ill be back soon Kim…Annette

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  62. Kim
    Nov 14, 2009 @ 10:14:10

    Hiya KO & MeME!!!

    I won’t be drawn into any more cyber space fighting. I had my fill of it. Anyone so small minded as to go to a blog and cause trouble has bigger issues than can be dealt with here

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  63. Kim
    Nov 14, 2009 @ 10:14:33

    sorry, MeMa

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  64. Kim
    Nov 14, 2009 @ 10:18:30

    OK, Chey – we are waiting for an update!!!

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